4 IMPORTANT REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD TRY TO HAVE YOUR FIRST BABY AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE AFTER MARRIAGE

4 IMPORTANT REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD TRY TO HAVE YOUR FIRST BABY AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE AFTER MARRIAGE

Waddup my dear Legends and all those people who are married and planning to have a baby! And if you are not married but still planning… Don’t do it… Get married first. C’mon it’s the kids we are talking about. Do the right thing. Do it legally. No kidding in case of kids! Be serious ok!

 

Well, I really want to share big news with you all….

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Actually I was having a conversation with my better half… peanut butter sandwich (which happens to be my favorite snack as well) about what is the right choice regarding timing of trying to have a baby. It was a very long conversation but we did manage to realize some amazing things which I want to share with you all today.

 

Well, I think this choice has to vary person to person because everyone has a different situation and different priorities in their life so what I am going to say may not really apply to everyone. However, it can help you while you are planning for your future in this aspect. So what I am going to talk about in this segment will be focused more on the PRO’s of having your first baby as early as possible.

 

Generally, guys should get married if they are sound financially. If you are struggling through career or business, focus on that first and build yourself up to a level where you can sustain financially and support a family because it is the man who is responsible for supporting the family even if the woman is also working. I strongly believe that men should not shy away from that responsibility. If your woman is working, be thankful for that and honor her. She is doing a huge favour to you because her responsibility is not to earn for the family. However in these tough times, both husband and wife have to work to run the family. So when considering marriage, you have to consider financial situation. That is all off topic for now so we focus on the topic of having baby now 😀

 

Ideally, I believe it is best that first year of marriage should be for the couples to really know each other. It does not matter if you have been dating before but the thing is that when you really live with each other, as same unit, you see the person whole lot differently. For that matter I believe first year should be for understanding, bonding, travelling etc.

 

Seeing the conditions these days with respect to the pollution in environment as well as the decreasing quality of our diets (fast food, broiler chicken and carbonated drinks at the top of the list), our reproductive systems are not doing so good.

 

There used to be a time when women would be fine even after giving birth to 12 kids and now, women tend to give up at 2nd kid mostly due to physical limitations. Men used to be able to produce kids at ages of 80 but nowadays I have seen men of ages about 28 firing blank shots. The cellular phones technology, microwaves, radio waves etc all have contributed to the degeneration of the human reproductive system.

 

Now those who have been in the navy or Airforce or in a high tech environment, working close to the radar system and other complicated electro-magnetic systems, need to be really careful of this as we are more prone to become blank cartridges. Some very close people also advised not to do any family planning for first child as it tells weather any problem exists or not. A lot many people who used protection in the start later ended up not being able to have kids.

 

My maternal aunt was not able to conceive in first 4 years of marriage. The social pressure started to build up. People started talking. They started comparing her to the cousins who married at same time and had babies at that time around. Luckily, her husband started consulting some good doctors right after they realized the problem. People did say stuff like “what is the use of seeing a doctor now? Why not wait a few years?” He would say that “after few years, the same effort has to be done. Why not do it now?” And he was right! They did have a son after 4 years of their marriage and then a daughter, then a son and a daughter and then another son.

 

So what I want to say is that it is best to not resist anything for the first child. The benefits of having a child early are as follows:

 

1)         You have energy

If you do it early, you have a lot of energy to do things. In our youth, a lot of issues don’t affect us and we can cut through the tough times like sleepless nights and the diaper problems. In a young age, you are more playful and can have a lot of fun with the kids without getting tired!

 

2)         You can enjoy every moment

In a young age you are full of life. This is the age you can climb mountains, swim in oceans and run a marathon if you work on it. Every moment of your younger time is the one you cherish in your old age. If there is a loving wife and a baby in that moment, this is something you will always be thankful for.

 

3)         Your family is likely to be more available

Now in my case, Alhamdullillah my mom and dad are alive and well. My 3 younger sisters live with me. My wife’s family is all available. Her paternal and maternal grandmothers are also close. So, if you have a similar scenario like mine, let me tell you that you truly are blessed and so will your child be. Imagine the love and care from the parents, grandparents and great grandparents of the child. This is something that cannot be exchanged for any amount of money in the world. Moreover, you will always have their guidance as to how to handle the baby so in this way you will not have to rely on trial and error!

 

4)         You will have a grown up person by the time you are 50

I have seen so many old people around me having very little kids around them and they begin to get more and more stressed regarding who will take care of the kids in case they pass away unexpectedly. If you have a kid, say at age of 25, By the time you are 50, you will have a grown up person, who would likely be independent. That is a huge burden off of you and then you have the opportunity to try new things in life as a couple like another couple’s world tour or something.

 

Having said all that, I would like to announce that on 3rd of August 2019 at half past 3pm, my son Khan Jr. was born. It is truly an amazing feeling and I cannot describe in words. Being a father was something very important to me and I have been blessed to have a son at an age of 26. I will always be thankful to Allah that my son will have his father, mother, his paternal and maternal uncles, aunts, grandparents and great grandparents with him. Mom and Dad have a lot of energy in them at the age of 56 and it is so cool to see them play with him all day.

 

Please remember us in your prayers. This is Khan signing off for today.

 

Peace be upon you all!

WHY DO I ADVERTISE SILVA ULTRAMIND ESP SYSTEMS?

WHY DO I ADVERTISE SILVA ULTRAMIND ESP SYSTEMS?

Waddup Legends!

This is your best friend KHAN and today I would like to tell you something about me here.

 So the question is why do I advertise Silva Ultra Mind… Good Question 😀

I was a kid who lived in a shell. I found it hard to mix with people; not externally but internally. I still remember that if guests would come over to my house, I would leave the place and tell my mom to leave the house with me because there were “too many people”. I never understood people really. I mean why do they want to visit our house? Why was my dad always laughing with his friends? Why would the kids want to play with me? I don’t want to play with them and I am totally Okay…. Get your own toys!!! You can imagine how it would go….

In school I did pretty good in terms of academics. I was the kind of kid who would help his classmates in their studies in order  to prepare for own exams. That is why I believed that teaching, what you learn, makes you grow. Unlike Money, giving knowledge to others helps you grow. Then again, My purely logical nature would not give me the luxury of real friends and I would still find it hard to understand people. I was a total left brain thinker. Pretty much it is what our school system teaches us. We are trained to think on numbers. Creativity is often frowned upon in many places that is why we want more engineers than entrepreneurs, more doctors than artists, more economists than musicians. This is all because we don’t use right sides of our brains. People like Eienstein thought with both sides which meant he used more of his mind (which was still 9% of the total ability he had). That is why he was called a Genius.

LOOK OUT FOR YOUR INTEREST

We were always taught in school to “always look out for yourself” “Watch for your interests” “It’s a competitive world”. Probably that is the reason why I was in the shell. I was not fully myself because I was taught since the start to be careful with people. To the LITTLE ME (aka LIL MEH) it was like the world is full of enemies. So If I have to live in this world full of foes, why was I sent here without weapons to fight them? So I started learning some cool hacks from youtube which were based on NLP and Hypnosis. I would read detective stories and learned martial arts to prepare myself against “the enemies”. It all took me to the edge of a cliff from where I was about to fall into darkness. And I did. I would find myself alone even though I was full .

In 2015, I was totally lost. I was at the top of my game in my career and extra-curricular but I was feeling something was missing. I would pray 5 times but now would not know the meaning of it. The school time practice of helping people in studies was still my tradition and that is what kept me going. I was doing it in the time when people around me thought that sharing notes means you are inviting yourself to lose. Showing your assignments was like giving away you credit card password. Sharing of information was considered stupid. It is still the case and has gotten worse. Expecting a good advice from someone is like expecting Santa to give you your wishes on Christmas.

That is when I came across Silva Ultra Mind. I had been into trancedental meditation before and I am a Level 2 Reiki Practitioner. So The concept of Meditation was not new for me. I knew what Self Hypnosis was and I did not really need much effort on how to meditate. Silva UM had a different approach. It showed me subjective side to things. For me things used to be 2 + 2 = 4. But Things donot have to be this way. Especially when it comes to life systems and relationships because in those cases it can be 2 and 2 is zero or 22. It is all based on your approach , intention and attitude.

This system not only teaches you how to meditate but to solve the problems. What many meditation instructors don’t know is that they take you to Theta Level of mind where your brain is working inductively, not deductively. So you do take in some deep level programming but there is no problem solving. If you want to be able to use the information in subjective spiritual and objective physical world, you have to be at alpha level which is 10 cycles per second frequency. This is where your mind is active. This is where you can amend the deep programming of your mind by yourself without a Freud like guy making you watch the pendulum watch and saying weird stuff. At this level you accept what you think is right and reject the useless stuff. That is a whole lot of personal transformation from the inside which guys like Confucius, Plato and Aristotle have been talking about. It also teaches you how to meditate like a monk in a matter of seconds. Best thing is you don’t need hours to do that. Just 15 min, thrice a day at max will do good.

At Alpha level of mind you are in touch with the spiritual side and this is where you pray. This is the level where your prayers are heard. So in Silva UM I actually learned how to pray. How many times have you often said to a sick friend or a brother in distress that “everything will be fine, if God wills it!”. Thing is everything will be fine if you have the will to make it fine. God will not come down and do your end of the job. We think that God is supposed to make everything right and let me tell you it is a very escapist kind of approach. We were sent here on this earth to improve the creation. To make life better on earth. Leave behind a better world. No one is the enemy here. We as humans must learn to co-exist. We need to learn to collaborate not compete. This is how we can make earth better for the next generations. You can see how fighting and wars have destroyed us. That very approach is still eating us up. So many people have died fighting in name of God. Why do we have to fight when our purpose is to live peacefully and help each other grow.

The working in Silva UM also brought a lot of transformation in me and I finally found out why teaching made me so fulfilled. If our goals involve ourselves only, we will never feel fulfilled. Your goals must involve giving back others. It has to have some form of service. Only then you can live peacefully with yourself. Because we have been sent here to help. It does not have to be just monetary help. It can be a smile, a pat on the back, words of wisdom, good advice etc. Funny thing is we cannot even give that to people. When I learned Silva UM, I decided that I would reciprocate by teaching it to others and spreading the word.

To learn Silva UM from the best (ME), feel free to contact me on contact@thesageforce.com . We provide live and online experience of this course with all the materials of Jose Silva. We also tailor our courses as per your specific requirements and provide Coaching and Counselling services as well.

This is KHAN signing off for now. Till then, Peace be on you All

Sincerely,

KHAN

MY EXPERIENCE JOSE SILVA’S SILVA ULTRAMIND ESP SYSTEM

MY EXPERIENCE JOSE SILVA’S SILVA ULTRAMIND ESP SYSTEM

Waddup Legends!

This is your best friend KHAN and I would like to tell you something about me here.

Let me tell you a story. I was a kid who lived in a shell. I found it hard to mix with people; not externally but internally. I still remember that if guests would come over to my house, I would leave the place and tell my mom to leave the house with me because there were “too many people”. I never understood people really. I mean why do they want to visit our house? Why was my dad always laughing with his friends? Why would the kids want to play with me? I don’t want to play with them and I am totally Okay…. Get your own toys!!! You can imagine how it would go…

In school I did pretty good in terms of academics. I was the kind of kid who would help his classmates in their studies in order  to prepare for own exams. That is why I believed that teaching, what you learn, makes you grow. Unlike Money, giving knowledge to others helps you grow. Then again, My purely logical nature would not give me the luxury of real friends and I would still find it hard to understand people. I was a total left brain thinker. Pretty much it is what our school system teaches us. We are trained to think on numbers. Creativity is often frowned upon in many places that is why we want more engineers than entrepreneurs, more doctors than artists, more economists than musicians. This is all because we don’t use right sides of our brains. People like Eienstein thought with both sides which meant he used more of his mind (which was still 9% of the total ability he had). That is why he was called a Genius.

We were always taught in school to “always look out for yourself” “Watch for your interests” “It’s a competitive world”. Probably that is the reason why I was in the shell. I was not fully myself because I was taught since the start to be careful with people. To the LITTLE ME (aka LIL MEH) it was like the world is full of enemies. So If I have to live in this world full of foes, why was I sent here without weapons to fight them? So I started learning some cool hacks from youtube which were based on NLP and Hypnosis. I would read detective stories and learned martial arts to prepare myself against “the enemies”. It all took me to the edge of a cliff from where I was about to fall into darkness. And I did. I would find myself alone even though I was full .

In 2015, I was totally lost. I was at the top of my game in my career and extra-curricular but I was feeling something was missing. I would pray 5 times but now would not know the meaning of it. The school time practice of helping people in studies was still my tradition and that is what kept me going. I was doing it in the time when people around me thought that sharing notes means you are inviting yourself to lose. Showing your assignments was like giving away you credit card password. Sharing of information was considered stupid. It is still the case and has gotten worse. Expecting a good advice from someone is like expecting Santa to give you your wishes on Christmas.

That is when I came across Silva Ultra Mind. I had been into trancedental meditation before and I am a Level 2 Reiki Practitioner. So The concept of Meditation was not new for me. I knew what Self Hypnosis was and I did not really need much effort on how to meditate. Silva UM had a different approach. It showed me subjective side to things. For me things used to be 2 + 2 = 4. But Things donot have to be this way. Especially when it comes to life systems and relationships because in those cases it can be 2 and 2 is zero or 22. It is all based on your approach , intention and attitude.

This system not only teaches you how to meditate but to solve the problems. What many meditation instructors don’t know is that they take you to Theta Level of mind where your brain is working inductively, not deductively. So you do take in some deep level programming but there is no problem solving. If you want to be able to use the information in subjective spiritual and objective physical world, you have to be at alpha level which is 10 cycles per second frequency. This is where your mind is active. This is where you can amend the deep programming of your mind by yourself without a Freud like guy making you watch the pendulum watch and saying weird stuff. At this level you accept what you think is right and reject the useless stuff. That is a whole lot of personal transformation from the inside which guys like Confucius, Plato and Aristotle have been talking about. It also teaches you how to meditate like a monk in a matter of seconds. Best thing is you don’t need hours to do that. Just 15 min, thrice a day at max will do good.

At Alpha level of mind you are in touch with the spiritual side and this is where you pray. This is the level where your prayers are heard. So in Silva UM I actually learned how to pray. How many times have you often said to a sick friend or a brother in distress that “everything will be fine, if God wills it!”. Thing is everything will be fine if you have the will to make it fine. God will not come down and do your end of the job. We think that God is supposed to make everything right and let me tell you it is a very escapist kind of approach. We were sent here on this earth to improve the creation. To make life better on earth. Leave behind a better world. No one is the enemy here. We as humans must learn to co-exist. We need to learn to collaborate not compete. This is how we can make earth better for the next generations. You can see how fighting and wars have destroyed us. That very approach is still eating us up. So many people have died fighting in name of God. Why do we have to fight when our purpose is to live peacefully and help each other grow.

The working in Silva UM also brought a lot of transformation in me and I finally found out why teaching made me so fulfilled. If our goals involve ourselves only, we will never feel fulfilled. Your goals must involve giving back others. It has to have some form of service. Only then you can live peacefully with yourself. Because we have been sent here to help. It does not have to be just monetary help. It can be a smile, a pat on the back, words of wisdom, good advice etc. Funny thing is we cannot even give that to people. When I learned Silva UM, I decided that I would reciprocate by teaching it to others and spreading the word.

To learn Silva UM from the best (ME), feel free to contact me on contact@thesageforce.com . We provide live and online experience of this course with all the materials of Jose Silva. We also tailor our courses as per your specific requirements and provide Coaching and Counselling services as well.

This is KHAN signing off for now.

Till then, Peace be on you All!

Sincerely,

KHAN